Risking Everything: A Definition of Personal Growth?
A very dear friend recently gave me a book entitled Risking Everything, by Roger Housden. It’s a collection of 110 poems centered on the theme of self-exploration and revelation.
The introduction alone is worth the price of the book. It begins, “Have you ever longed for a life in which every last part of you is entirely used up? Have you ever followed that longing?”
Too often we play it safe in life—I know I do. I seek security, safety, a just-interesting-enough life. But I forget that my deepest yearnings may very well be calls from God. Challenges to grow and to take risks to achieve a dream, make a contribution. But change takes work. I know that a simple Lenten sacrifice of not watching TV has been a struggle, let alone all that’s involved in changing one’s life’s direction!
But Mary Oliver says it best in her poem “When Death Comes”:
“When it’s over, I want to say: all my life
I was a bride married to amazement…
I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.”
I find myself reading and rereading the introduction, then diving into the poems, soaking up the words like a desiccated soul thirsting for wisdom and inspiration.
There are many times of the year when we resolve to make changes: New Year’s, of course, and September. But spring too is a time to use the energy of the season to burst out of a deep slumber into your very best you, and as Derek Walcott suggests, “Feast on your life.”
Who would you be if you could become your very best self?
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Downtime is just as important as all my self-improvement activities, and can ultimately lead to renewed creativity and innovation.
Online managing editor Anne Simpkinson talks about how stillness and quiet can lead us to new discoveries about ourselves.