Glimpses of Heaven
By Trudy Harris

Sudden Death and the Promise of Reunion in Heaven

Some people receive multiple glimpses of heaven. I received a note from a lovely woman who had sensed when her grandfather died years ago, although he was very far away. She realized he had come to let her know he was leaving and to reassure her of his love. In this letter she tells of the recent death of her husband of 39 years.

Dear Trudy,
Noah and I met in May 1970 when as a graduate student I showed him the apartment that was vacant right next door to mine. We started dating two months later and married in 1972.

We had three daughters and enjoyed more than 39 years of married life. Over the years Noah loved to tease, and when he was out of town and called he would usually ask me, “When did you realize that I was gone?” I would always scold him mildly that of course I missed him immediately.

We had just returned from a wonderful trip. On Sunday morning he woke me complaining of a headache and within minutes he was unconscious, the victim of a sudden ruptured brain aneurysm. We were able to get him home, closer to our family and friends, and he died three days later. My girls and I were all devastated by the sudden loss and not being able to say goodbye. I wondered how I was going to continue with my life.

Almost immediately I began letting our golden retriever sleep on Noah’s side of the bed—mostly so the bed wouldn’t seem so empty. One night as she jumped on the bed, I patted her and told her that she was a good dog but not the same as having Noah there. Immediately a thought entered my brain, almost as if it had been said to me: “When did you realize I was gone?” I looked up at the ceiling and asked, “Did you say that? You know I miss you now and will always miss you!” But I felt reassured that all was well and that he will always be there for me.


Dear Gail,
I believe that love never dies and that only later, when we are in heaven, will we realize the full meaning of love from God’s perspective. Love creates a connection of the heart, soul, mind and spirit that we only understand from a human standpoint. It runs much deeper and has much more meaning than we now know.

You and your husband had a beautiful life together, you loved deeply and well, and that does not die. Be comforted by the closeness God himself is allowing you to experience. And know that you will see him again one day in heaven. Be at peace—you have loved well.

Trudy Harris

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Trudy Harris, RN, is the author of the popular Glimpses of Heaven and More Glimpses of Heaven. Although now retired, she was a hospice nurse and president of Jacksonville's Hospice Foundation for Caring where she raised more than $45 million in capital contributions. You can find her on Facebook!

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When my wife died last year, my life was so devastated. My thoughts all the time is only her. Shortly after she was buried, my sister-in-law (her sister), who's house is just beside ours was celebrating their wedding anniversary. In my deepest loneliness thinking that we won't be celebrating ours together anymore, I sat alone in the corner of our sala where there is a computer which we frequently used to watched movies together. As I sit on the chair listening to music I suddenly have a very strong smell of her favorite perfume. Then I felt a movement of air beside me and that's where also where the smell of perfume comes from. I just close my eyes and tears flowing said softly: "Thank you sweetheart for being with me and with us tonight, I love you very much". And a very comforting feeling enveloped me until a nephew called me for dinner.

My husband died unexpectedly and suddenly in an accident 9 months ago. We had been married for 41 years. What you said to Gail, and what Nancy said - "knowing that I will see him again is what gets me out of bed in the morning and moving forward" - those are my exact feelings too. Ronnie was the music in my life and I love and miss him more than words can say. I believe our deceased loved ones don't stop loving us, they love us more ! and that gives me great comfort.

My new friend sent me this link... she lost her husband to cancer over a year ago and I lost my beautiful husband this Feb to cancer. Michael and I were married for 38 years & I am finding it so hard to be alone. Reading what you said to "Gail" helped me... Mike and I loved each other through all the ups and downs. He was a teaser too... what you said about loving deeply not dying is so true. Just knowing that I will see Mike again is what gets me out of bed in the morning and moving forward. Thank you, Nancy Alford