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I Brake for Yard Sales

The cohost of Good Morning America talks about her not-so-secret passion and the inspiration behind it.

By Lara Spencer, New York, New York

As appeared in

I make no secret of my love for all things vintage and antique, and it all started because of my mom. She turned me on to the thrill of hunting for secondhand treasures at flea markets and tag sales from the time I was a toddler, and I have been going strong ever since.

With five kids to feed, there was no room in the budget for interior design, but that didn’t stop my mother! On the back of her station wagon was a bumper sticker that read I brake for yard sales, and she certainly did.

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She loved to haggle for wonderful old paintings, silverware, furniture–anything she could breathe new life into. Mom always gave me a dollar or two on these outings and encouraged me to search for treasures as well. 

Some folks might have been turned off by the piles of dusty junk stacked up in strangers’ garages and driveways or lying scattered across their front lawns, but not me. I learned valuable lessons about life, lessons that I now try to instill in my own kids.

1. Don’t be fooled by appearances
You should see the dining table where our family has gathered every Christmas and Thanksgiving for almost as long as I can remember. When my mom bought it, years ago, at a St. Vincent de Paul thrift shop, I thought she had lost her mind.

She said it was only 50 dollars. We all thought it was 50 dollars too much! It was covered with layers of paint and all dinged up, but underneath, as she predicted, it was beautiful solid mahogany. Refinished and reborn, it became the centerpiece of our dining room and a true family heirloom.

I think I learned some of the skills I use as a journalist from my mom on our flea-market outings. She always asked questions, trying to learn more about the history of whatever she was interested in.

She looked for maker’s marks and checked the underside of pieces, searching for clues to the quality. When she found something she liked, she’d take it home and put some elbow grease into it and uncover a treasure.

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Kids can be quick to judge. I learned to do otherwise from Mom, and to give things a second chance.

When I bring my own kids to a flea market, I will show them an old chair and point out all the beautiful features and quality workmanship underneath the worn fabric. I remind them never to judge anything, or anyone, on outward appearance alone.

2. Seek what you love
Bargains are great, of course, but don’t buy something at a flea market or thrift shop just because it’s a really good deal. Buy things that speak to you. Don’t grab a painting because you think it could be a lost Monet–buy it because you think it’s beautiful.

If you buy what you love, you’ll enjoy it. If it turns out to be valuable, well, that’s a bonus.

The very first thing I bought at a yard sale was a ceramic Snoopy. I was about eight years old and I paid a quarter for it. It got me started on a collection of Snoopy figurines that I still have today. Are they valuable? I doubt they are worth much money, but they are valuable to me.

Their value is in their memory–they remind me of a young girl’s happy Saturdays with her mom.

The first really valuable thing I found? I was just out of college, working in the page program at NBC, making next to nothing.

Flea Market FabulousA cohost on ABC's Good Morning America and the host of Flea Market Flip on HGTV, Lara Spencer is also a best-selling author; her latest book is Flea Market Fabulous: Designing Gorgeous Rooms with Vintage Treasures (Stewart, Tabori & Chang, 2014)