Have Yourself a Thrift-Shop Christmas

A woman on a budget relies on faith, inspiration and divine guidance in tracking down some very special Christmas presents.

By Nan Kennedy Morrison, Bartlesville, Oklahoma

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I’m a gift-giver. I always have been. Especially at Christmastime.

There’s nothing more exciting than shopping for the people I love, then watching them open the present that’s perfect for them. But this year I was afraid there’d be no shopping.

It was a few weeks before Christmas and I sat at my kitchen table staring at my checkbook. Bills had left me with next to nothing in my gift budget.

There were a dozen people on my list—my husband, Frank, our son, nieces, nephews, friends....

I’ll never be able to afford something for everyone, I thought.

As usual, my faltering faith called my favorite Bible verse, Proverbs 3:5–6, to mind: “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding; in all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy paths.”

Okay, Lord, I prayed, help me make this money stretch. I trust you.

The newspaper was on the table next to me. I flipped through it, and an article about a weekend estate sale practically jumped off the page. Maybe I’ll check it out, I thought, and wrote down the address.

I turned the page. There, smack dab in the middle, was an ad for the Goodwill store. Hmm, they might have a few things too. On the next? A garage sale listing. After that, one for a thrift shop.

“Okay, Lord, I’m listening,” I said aloud. “Direct my path.”

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That weekend I drove over to the estate sale. First I browsed through the living room. There was antique furniture, tables crowded with vases and lamps. Nothing caught my eye.

I walked over to an office area and looked at some electronics. Nothing there either.

Another room had beautiful artwork, but everything was out of my price range. Maybe this is a waste of time, I thought, wandering into the kitchen.

Bingo! A table loaded with lace handkerchiefs for a dollar apiece. My sister collected handkerchiefs!

And up high on a pantry shelf was a sealed exotic mustard made in Eufaula, Oklahoma, a small town near where we’d grown up. I knew she’d get a kick out of that.

To cap it off, I added a brand-new, still-in-the-box crystal water pitcher.

The race was on! The next day I hit the Goodwill. I found a men’s designer dress shirt in just the right size for my hard-to-fit son, still with original creases, for just a few dollars.

A couple of days later I discovered a gorgeous choker with an unusual sapphire-colored stone in the center. Just the thing for my fashionista niece!

Next up were the garage sales. There were two terrific finds for Frank: a CD of Oklahoma’s centennial anniversary celebrations and a movie featuring Andy Griffith, his favorite actor.

“Have you bought anything for yourself?” Frank asked one afternoon when I came home with more packages. “Christmas is about other people,” I said.

But on my next trip to the thrift shop I found a rust-colored jacket that matched an outfit I had.

Your Comments

I love this! Our family is experiencing different opinions this year about gift giving: some love the gifting, some want to give to charity. We have students in the family with money challenges, and most of us have no needs! This is a lovely story, a lovely perspective! Thank you.

And, like so many things, it is just like the story of the wise and foolish virgins: If you want to profit from His guidance, you have to be prepared.

The writer knows what people may like, but -- and she really shows preparation here -- she knew the exact size her son-in-law needed in a shirt.

Preparation is so important.

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I'm a daily communicant. Every Saturday, we have a ROSARY FOR LIFE in front of the Abortion clinic here in Knoxville, TN. I always tell God where to get a help. My Mom was sick, having a Dementia, and lost my job for five months now, and always asking help from God where to go for help. I already had surfed my friends borrowing monetary help for food & medications. Just this morning after our Rosary in front of the Abortion clinic reciting the four mysteries of the Rosary with only few people, my mind wonder where to get help. Well came home with heart's up and down fellings. I turn on my computer, and here I read this article, written by Marlene Bernice. I tried to be strong, to write something that maybe someone can share something for my lowliness. I really need at least two hundred dollars for my Mom's medication, she has no Health Insurance just like
me. I'm hoping and looking forward that there must be somewhere, someone who has a golden heart to share the poor among the poorest in this earth planet. My Mom keeps crying and and always try consolling her that maybe one of our Guardian angels will bring something through Mother Mary.
In God's love, Lorie C Weeden

Sorry to hear about your circumstances Lori. If I may make a suggestion, contact your church St. Vincent de Paul. I'm sure they will be of great help. Everybody everywhere is in some kind of financial crunch or the other. Please keep praying, with your eyes on the Lord and your hand in His and He will lead you to the resolution of your problem. God Bless.

I loved this story, it blessed my heart. At this time my son sold his house and didn't want anything and told me to get rid of everything. I couldn't believe what he wanted to give away and what I thought he needed. I called people to pick and take everything away for free and inside I thought why is it when we need something we always pay top dollar but everything we have seems to be given away for free, brand new never used. This answered my question by thinking maybe someone does need something and can't pay for things or is in need somehow. Bless their heart and thank you for this heart warming story. I will give things with ease because thats what GOD wants me to do.

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