Trusting, Praying, Working: A Mother's Black Belt Journey

Inspired by her son's faith in her, a fifty-something woman conquers self-doubt and masters taekwondo.

By Sherie Huffman, West Hills, California

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I held the ice pack against my knee inside our tent 12,000 feet up in the Sierra Nevada. I’d twisted it crossing a glacier with my husband, Grover, and our two sons, slipping and falling on a sun-softened patch of snow.

Up until then it had been a great trip, the first time in years I’d been in good enough shape to backpack. We’d planned on hiking another five days, but now because of me that wouldn’t be happening.

Grover poked his head inside the tent. “Any better?” he asked.

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I shook my head no and gingerly pulled off the ice. Overnight my 49-year-old knee had swollen to the size of a grapefruit. It was at least six shades of purple.

“I’m sorry,” I said. “I’ve ruined everything. I should have known I wasn’t strong enough to do this yet!”

Grover patted my arm. “Stop it, Sherie. You’ve come a long way,” he said. “I’m going for help. Don’t worry.”

I watched him hurry down the path. The nearest trailhead was six miles away. The boys, Aaron, 15, and Eric, 10, came inside and wrapped their arms around me.

“It’s okay, Mom,” Eric said. But I couldn’t help feeling that I’d let them down. I should have never attempted something like this. Fifteen days hiking in the mountains? There were things you just didn’t do at my age, not with my problems.

Eventually a helicopter whisked me down the mountain to the hospital.

“Nothing’s broken,” the ER doctor said, “but it is a severe sprain. You’re going to be on crutches for about six weeks and it’ll be five or six months before you can do any running or jumping.”

My heart sank. Five or six months? All that work to get in shape. And for what? I was going to be right back where I’d started.

At home I set up camp again—on the couch with my ice pack. This wasn’t how it was supposed to turn out. I was closing in on 50 and tired of feeling old, overweight and out of shape.

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I wanted to be the active, energetic woman I’d once been, the one who fell in love with Grover backpacking in the mountains, who used to go exploring with the kids. So I’d asked God to help me rediscover that part of myself. The answer was stranger than anything I could have dreamed up.

Nearly two years ago for Christmas we’d given Eric and Aaron introductory taekwondo lessons. After the first sessions, Aaron decided to stick with baseball. But Eric signed up for more classes.

Three times a week I drove him to Master Park’s studio. I watched him struggle to learn the kicks. One day he got so twisted up he collapsed on the mat. But he got right back up. Before long he was breaking boards. I was so proud of him.

The more I watched Eric practice the more I thought, That looks like fun. And then, Maybe I can do taekwondo too. I casually mentioned to Eric that perhaps I could take some classes. His eyes lit up.

“That would be really cool, Mom!” he said.

Day one. Eric ran ahead of me into the training room, but I lingered nervously in the doorway, feeling like a beluga whale dressed in the white uniform I’d borrowed from Aaron.

One student cracked a board with his bare hand. Another stretched his leg above his head with a kick that would be the envy of a Rockette. I’ll never be able to do that.

I was about to beat a retreat to my car, but Master Park spotted me. “Mrs. Huffman,” he said with an exuberant wave, “so glad you could join us!”

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The room fell silent as the entire class looked at me. Too late, I thought.

Those first few weeks were more punishing than any mountain I’d ever climbed. It was all I could do not to fall on my face. I could feel Eric’s eyes on me. So many times I’d told him to persevere in his young life. Now I sensed him pushing me. I couldn’t quit in front of him.

We practiced together at home. Each week I kicked a little higher. Punched a little harder. Learned more forms, series of moves done in a set pattern. Then one day Master Park held an inch-thick board in front of me. 

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