What Prayer Can Do: Don't Be Afraid to Ask

It's not always easy to share our burdens, but doing so honors those we turn to.

By Rick Hamlin, New York, New York

I was sitting in church with my mom, the front pew on the left where she and my dad always sat. But Dad wasn’t there—he’d just been moved to a nursing facility. At the beginning of the service the minister read the names of people who needed prayer.

My eyes half-closed, I listened. This was the church where I grew up, the place where Mom and Dad had worshipped for over 50 years. I could picture Dad bellowing the hymns. I thought of all those years he’d been an usher, wearing one of his signature bow ties.

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More recently he’d come to church with a walker and nod off during the sermon, but he always showed up. I could even imagine him praying right now.

Lord, I prayed, we’re grateful for the care Dad’s getting. He seems comfortable and happy in his new home. But we need you to be with him and be with us.

Only when all the names had been read did it dawn on me: Dad wasn’t on the list. “Amen,” we said. I looked questioningly at Mom.

“I didn’t want to bother anybody,” she whispered. “There are so many people who have bigger needs.”

I understood her hesitation, but I wanted to tell her how grateful I am when someone e-mails, calls, posts on Facebook, lets me know somehow he or she needs prayer.

They’re giving me a call to action, a chance to reach out and reach up. If they didn’t say anything, how would I know how to help?

Every night of my childhood when Dad said grace he mentioned the names of people needing prayer. Now it was his turn. “We’re putting Dad on that list,” I told Mom after the service. “People will want to know.”

“You think so?”

“I know so.”

For the last few months of Dad’s life, we got plenty of support. People knew what we needed. When you ask for help, you make yourself open to receiving it— from heaven and earth. I shouldn’t have been surprised. That’s the kind of thing Dad knew all along.

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I loved reading your story. So encouraging and yet so real life. Thank you for sharing. God wants us to need one another. We got it down pat in needing Him. Yet it's another story when we have to say "I need you!" Will be praying for you and your Mom. Keep Bloging Rick.

The line, "When you ask for help, you make yourself open to receive it, from heaven and earth" says it all. Too often, we try to shoulder it all alone, not wanting to burden others, and in doing so we deny ourselves a grace. I'm very much a "I can do it!" kind of girl, wanting to prove to myself that I'm strong enough, capable enough to fix things. But we can't do it all alone, we need prayers, we need each other. When someone says to me "I'm keeping you in my prayers", knowing that someone will lift me up to our Heavenly Father, moves me deeply. When someone asks me to pray for them, it's an honor. Praying for others bringing people together. Yes, there are many times when I feel like others problems are greater than my own, and I shouldn't bother God with mine, or ask others to pray for me, but we are taught that God cares for each and every one of us, and so, He does want to hear from us. We should never feel that we are unable to go to God with our worries and cares.

Love your story,about being at church with your mom.I all to often said even though i very sick,never wanting to ask God to heal me or to get better.Like your mom,i pray for others.I felt there was so many more in worst shape than i was so i did not want to bother God.