A grudge is one thing that does not get better when it is nursed.
It is easier to leave angry words unspoken than to mend a heart these words have broken.
Saints have a past. Sinners have a future.
If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will save a thousand days of sorrow.
When we can accept our humanity and the perpetrator's, we can write a new story, one in which we are no longer cast as a victim but as a survivor, even perhaps a hero.
Learning to fail well means overcoming our natural instincts to blame someone whenever something goes wrong. People fail best when they err on the side of forgiveness.
Earth is Forgiveness School.
Forgiveness doesn't excuse their actions. Forgiveness stops their actions from destroying your heart.
Never forget the three powerful resources you have always available to you: love, prayer and forgiveness.
Forgiving one's enemies does not mean to be fainthearted, but to have a strong soul.
Forgiveness does not mean condoning what has been done. Forgiving means abandoning your right to pay back the perpetrator in his own coin.
Emphasize reconciliation, not resolution. It is unrealistic to expect everyone to agree about everything. Reconciliation focuses on the relationship, while resolution focuses on the problem. When we focus on reconciliation, the problem loses significance and often becomes irrelevant.