If family isn't helpful when you're caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's, written updates and a support group can make inroads.
This article is based on information provided by Home Instead Senior Care [1].
Caregiving for someone with Alzhiemer’s [2] is challenging. When others in your family are not on board to provide support, either on an emotional level or when it comes to the day-to-day tasks you handle, caregiving can become more challenging and may feel lonely. While each family situation is different, the following approaches may help you to make gentle progress:
· Let family members know what’s happening and how you’re faring with a text, email or snail-mail once in a while. You could shoot over a note, photos or possibly an article about Alzheimer’s [3].
· Consider joining a support group with other family members to get a dialogue started.
· Talk with friends, neighbors, or colleagues who have been through a similar situation. They may be able to offer practical tips for communicating with family, or they may become a source of support themselves.
· Sometimes family members who live far away want to be supportive, but they are unsure what they can do. Give them a specific task, whether it’s ordering groceries to be delivered, or just listening to your challenges in a phone call or text.